How Much We Pay Our Kids For Chores

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If you’ve ever wondered how much to pay kids for chores you are not alone. It’s a question my wife and I have wrestled with again and again. I’ve mentioned before why we don’t give our kids allowances. I’m not giving them money just for existing. It seems like that is what an allowance implies. Kids need to feel the burden of work so they can experience the joy of its rewards.

how much to pay kids for choresIn addition to earning some money, doing chores around the house is teaching them responsibility. The home is where they should begin to learn basic life skills. When I was in school, I knew some college freshman who couldn’t do their own laundry. All four of my children have been doing their laundry since they were nine.

Over the years my wife and I have adjusted how much we pay our kids for chores. The amounts started out small and increased as they got older. And then when we started having teenagers, specifically when they turned 16, we made another radical turn. Before I get to that though, here is some background information that helped us decide on how much to pay kids for chores.

Questions About Paying Kids For Chores

There are so many questions that arise for parents on the issue of paying kids for chores. Some of the big ones we’ve wrestled with include:

“At what age should we start?”

“What tasks should my kids be doing?”

“Do I pay them for everything?”

“How much should I be paying them?”

First let me say, I’m not sure there is a clear cut answer to these questions. We’ve gone back and forth on the issues since we began our work-for-pay commission program. After having done it now all these years, this is how we see it:

1. We chose age appropriate chores for each kid. These began at age 5 or 6. (Our oldest was actually 8 when we started the program.)

2. Also, we don’t pay them for all work around the house. There are some tasks they do simply because they are part of the family. For us, those include things like making beds, doing dishes, setting/cleaning the table, walking the dog, getting the mail, packing school lunches, and picking up toys inside and out.

3. Each kid does not receive equal pay. Some chores are worth more than others because of their difficulty. They are assigned more and harder chores the older they get. Consequently, the teenagers get paid more because they do more.

4. Finally, there are additional chores they can voluntarily choose to complete for extra money.

How Much to Pay Kids For Chores

The question of how much to pay kids for chores is a tough one. I’ve heard many say the going rate is $1 per task. To me, that rate seems like a good starting point, especially for the young ones. However, as ours aged and the tasks became more challenging, we increased the amount.

My best suggestion is to make the amount paid a part of the monthly budget and do what you can afford. This has to be a personal decision upon evaluation of your own family budget.

Furthermore, remember that the real reward is found in the work ethic and responsibility being developed. The amount they actually earn is of secondary importance. 

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If you can’t afford much, try substituting other rewards for chores in lieu of money. Perhaps staying up later, watching an extra hour of TV or getting an additional 30 minutes playing on the iPad could be options.

So with that as background information, here is our list of weekly chores and payment schedule:

Child #1 – Girl – Age 18

Sweep main floor hardwood floors

Clean and sweep her bedroom

Clean upstairs girl’s bathroom (sink, toilet, shower, mop)

Do her personal laundry

Take the trash to the curb for pickup

Pay – $13/wk.

Child #2 – Boy – Age 16

Vacuum basement carpet

Clean upstairs boy’s bathroom (sink, toilet, shower, mop)

Clean and sweep bedroom

Do his personal laundry

Clean up after dog in the yard

Pay – $13/wk.

Child #3 – Girl – Age 13

Clean basement bathroom (sink, toilet, shower, mop)

Empty trash in mom and dad’s bedroom and bathroom

Clean and sweep her bedroom

Do her laundry and put clothes away

Wipe down main floor glass exterior doors

Pay – $7/wk

Child #4 – Boy – Age 11

Vacuum carpets in living room and office

Do his own laundry and put clothes away

Clean and sweep his bedroom

Clean main floor half bathroom (sink, toilet)

Sweep and dust upstairs hallway and stairs

Pay – $7/wk.

The following infrequent chores and the pay rate are ones the kids can select for extra money, provided they ask us first:

Change bed sheets – $.75

Clean microwave inside and out – $1.00

Fully dust the downstairs – $1.50

Wipe down doors/door jams – $1.50

Clean master bathroom – $3.00

Sweep/clean garage – $3.00

Weed flower beds – $4.00

Wash cars – $5.00

Mow the yard – $6.00

Other – depends on job

The Benefits of This Chore System

You might be saying at this point, “That’s a lot of money!”

Some quick calculations would cause me to agree. If all the chores are completed, we are handing over $40 per week to our kids. That’s over $2,000 per year.

So here are a couple of points to consider to bring this into perspective:

1. Every week somebody forgets at least one chore, so the actual amount is often less.

2. We can afford and do budget for this. So this money doesn’t keep us from putting food on the table or keeping the lights on.

3. We’ve seen some great benefits develop including:

    • It’s taught them the value of completing more challenging tasks. They are rewarded more and thus are driven to attempt them.
    • It’s helped them buy their own stuff. My daughter purchased her own iPod with the money she saved from her chores.
    • It’s relieved the burden we as parents feel when the kids nickel-and-dime us for spending money. All I say now on the smaller requests is “Use your spending money.”
    • It’s taught them to use their money wisely. It means more to them because they earned it.
    • It’s motivated my oldest daughter to get a part-time job that will bring in more money before she goes off to college.

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How Much to Pay Kids For Chores Is An Evolving Process

What we have found is that paying our kids for chores evolves over time. In fact, now that we have older teens, we have done something entirely different with them. Instead of paying them weekly for completing chores, we pay them monthly.

We look at all the expenses we have for them in one month. This includes of course the amount we pay them for completing their chores. We still hold them responsible for those and give incentives if they do more.

But the amount also includes money we spend on clothing, incidental school related items, special events, etc. We take that amount (ex. $150) and give it to them all at one time at the beginning of the month. Additionally, we opened a checking account for them with their own debit card.

The point of this is to have them set up a budget and be responsible to manage their needs for the month. Teens need to learn budgeting before they set out on their own. What better time to do it than while still under your supervision. Budgeting is a skill they will need if they are going to have long-term financial success.

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So far this has gone really well with our teens. Our oldest has been pretty good with money so far, having already earned a good amount on her first summer job. I’m looking forward to seeing how our other kids progress in their views about work and money.

If you’d like to download a sample chore sheet you can find one on my “Resources” page by clicking here. It’s an Excel file so you will be able to customize it to whatever chores are being done in your household.

And finally remember, with chores it’s not necessarily how much you pay your kids that makes the process beneficial.

Questions for Discussion: What thoughts do you have on how much to pay kids for chores? How many chores are too many? Are there chores your kids do just because they are part of the family? Anyone use alternative reward options for finishing chores? Could you do laundry by the time you were a freshman in college?

(post updated 9/19)

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